Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter. Hush until you heal.
If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.
8 “But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.
9 Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God.
10 Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.“